Saturday, March 31, 2007

doing the right thing

From the moment I read the title, I was captured by this story: German company pays Jewish family for Nazi-era confiscation.

It’s the latest in a long line of recompensatory activity in former Nazi Germany. And just think about the words of the headline without even reading the story. Don’t you get this sense of relief, this sense of release, this sense that some great wrong has been made right? Don’t you get a sense of restoration and restitution, even vindication and justification for those who were wronged?

It’s so simple, so pure, so right.

Dig into the story a bit and here’s what you find. Germany’s largest retailer is paying the heirs of a once-Jewish-owned department store nearly $120 million for the confiscation of what is now prime real estate in Berlin…a glittering complex that includes a Ritz-Carlton and a Marriott Hotel as well as luxury apartments and offices”.

And now as more details are given, doesn’t something wake up and begin stirring inside you? Make you want to know more, and to start analyzing the facts? Whoa. Largest retailer? Ritz-Carlton? Marriott? Luxury apartments and offices? Is $120 Million enough? How many heirs is it split among? What have they endured? Why couldn’t you just give it back to them if it was confiscated?

Less simple, less pure, less right.

Dig a little deeper and you find that the case has been going on for over 15 years, filled with difficulties and drama, advances and setbacks for both sides, executed with “often bitter legal maneuvering”. Of course, the Wertheim heirs and those representing them are thrilled and proud. A very pleased Barbara Principe, the 74 year old granddaughter of the original property owner, said this proves “the Nazis are gone”, and even the new CEO of the company who is paying said, “We are leaving the dark, horrifying past behind us”. So why did it take 15 years? Are the Nazis only just now routed? Or do some things like this just take a lot of energy and time to sort out?

One of the interesting things is that the property wasn’t actually “confiscated” per se. It was “lost” in the late 1930s when the Nazis began taking the rights to own property away from Jews and others who couldn’t boast an “Aryan” pedigree. So, Grandpa Wertheim, in order to keep from having his property confiscated actually sold it to one Arthur Lindgens. Sold it for some absurdly small amount of money. But sold it nonetheless. And took up a new line of work as a chicken herder. In New Jersey. After fleeing Berlin. It’s not such a good trade financially, but how much is life itself and the lives of your family worth? My guess is that Grandpa thanked YHWH his God over and over for allowing him to escape with his life, thanked God that he had a department store to sell when so many lives with nothing to trade were snuffed out. Even so, very few today could look back at that and call it a sale. It was a liquidation of desperation at the threat of annihilation. It was a confiscation. But because it was sold, how do you just simply order that the Nazis give the property back to the family?

Even less simple, even less pure, even less right.

And because our quest for what’s right gets more and more complicated the more we dig into it, someone has to make a final judgment. Someone has to sit atop things, and try to untangle them, to figure out what is right, and what is wrong. Who could do this? How would it be done? Deep cuts are required. And the more time that passes the deeper the cuts, the worse the tangles.

More tangles: When Lindgens “bought” Wertheim, he merged it into another formerly Jewish-owned company he bought (in a similar way) called Hertie. More tangles: When World War II was ended and East and West Berlin were divided, part of the property went East and the other part went West. Then the Soviets came along and built the Berlin Wall in 1961, but they didn’t follow the lines of demarcation properly. This was so messed up that government officials on both sides negotiated a land swap in 1988 (27 years later). More tangles: the German reunification in 1990. More tangles: In 2000 the land was sold off to a developer for a lot of money. And apart from this, just think of all the employees that have worked for the company, and all the sales, returns, vendors, taxes, and all of the complicated interrelationships with this company and the various economies it has been entangled with over the past 70 years. So you just give it back to the family? Give what back to the family?

Simple? Pure? Right?

It kind of makes your head spin.

Like, where’s the rewind button?

So the news yesterday was that this was finally settled. The two parties agreed that the right thing to do was for the German company to pay the family roughly market price minus 30%. This was possible because the German company’s new CEO, Thomas Middelhoff, urged everyone to negotiate in good faith. “Of course, they asked for more. Of course, we offered less. This is typical in these cases.” It was because of his leadership that any settlement was reached after 15 years of this thing being “logjammed”.

They made a compromise.

They had to.

Doing the right thing always ends up being a compromise.

Always.

Some people speak about doing the right thing as if it’s a black and white proposition. Some people talk about the biblical phrase “rightly dividing the word of truth” as if it is something very clear cut. It is anything but.

The Wertheim situation is a bizarre and complicated one, but it’s far from exceptional. People live in situations at least as complicated as this every day. And some of them are trying to determine what is right. Much to their distress.

What is right always ends up being a compromise.

Always.

For a short time I lived in the fringes of some really destructive teaching by a man named Bill Gothard. A lot of what he said seemed so reasonable, so logical, seemed to explain so much of why some people get into bad situations, and why others are always happy and blessed. One of his ideas is that divorce is always wrong, and remarriage is right out, except if it’s with the original spouse, which is what he says you’re required to do. Or else stay single for the rest of your life. This, to him, is what is right and what is wrong. It, to him, is black and white.

And so some very distressed people have come to me asking what they should do now that they’re divorced and haven’t spoken to their ex in a decade. Gothard would say it’s simple. Go back and remarry. It’s the right thing to do. It’s black and white. Really? What if I’m remarried? Do I divorce my loving husband? What if the first husband has remarried? Twice? With two children? Each by different women? And how does it work when he was the first husband to all three of us, but none of us were his first wife? Who do I tell all these other people to go back to? What is the right thing to do? And how do I untangle all this?

The right thing will end up being a compromise no matter what.

Always.

It will always be a compromise because there is simply no way of going back far enough to where the tangles all began. Some cutting will be required. Ever since humanity fell, every single situation has been tangled. Every one. There is simply no hope anymore for any of us to do what is absolutely right, to truly live in black and white.

So Jesus (without asking Bill Gothard’s approval) says, “unless your rightness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven.”

But there was simply no way to surpass the rightness of the Pharisees and teachers of the law going about it the way they were going about it. Going about it the way most people today go about it, including most of the church. There is only one righteousness that surpasses, and it does not depend on doing the right thing.

Those who know me know that I am against doing the right thing. Categorically. It’s a bad way to live, and an unworkable life. In fact, it’s no life at all. And it can suck the life out of those who have it if they get too close to it.

There is a book on my shelf called, How to do everything right and live to regret it. Not a great book, but a great title. I’d like to remove all its pages and replace them with some things that have been simmering in my heart for a long time, and God willing I will do something much like that.

In the end, it is a very good thing this German company, KarstadtQuelle, has done (even if they required the help of tenacious folks over at the Jewish Claims Conference). The world is better because this happened yesterday. Humanity is better. And it suggests that at least some have it within us to do good and pleasing things, even when it is truly impossible to do the right thing.

5 comments:

MJ said...

When I was 20 I did something wrong...really, really wrong. I have spent 11 years trying to paint over it by "doing the right things." It hasn't reaped right living or a right life...just lots and lots of smoke to fill up that room.

And now, just like those people with the department store, I couldn't possibly hope to rectify it. I have been trying to damage control all these years and the person that absorbed all the shock was me. I thought that is what I deserved for doing wrong and how I needed to live to make it right and now I do regret it. It is terrible to look at most of what you thought was right and realize, you were decieved.

John Three Thirty said...

I am really surprised more people don't recoil from attempting to live/be "right".

What a subjective term...from hell.

Steve Coan said...

MJ,

I'm sorry this happened to you. And no, it's not because you deserved it. The good news is that everything is redeemable.

I avoid talking in terms of right and wrong altogether. Too much vitriol over something so subjective. But I didn't always think it subjective. I was thoroughly baptized in morality as right and wrong. In fact I was almost shocked to discover one day that it was not the tree of right and wrong, but rather the tree of good and evil.

What we need is to be saved from this way of seeing things.

John Three Thirty said...
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John Three Thirty said...

wanted to expand the thought...

I'm finding that what many call "right" is chock full of holes and shards of broken glass.

And then unassuming people who follow the "right" path that the mysterious 'they' promote (essentially society and the Church) are commonly the ones whose hearts get cut by the shards.

Yet as you say, Steve, things are redeemable.

Another fly in the ointment is some cut entanglements when they shouldn't, and some don't cut when they should.

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